Archive for the 'Family' Category

A Warning From the Past

During the Exodus, Moses and the children of Israel escaped the slavery of the Egyptians. As they traveled toward the Promised Land, they witnessed a lot of miraculous things.

God parted the waters of the Red Sea and the Egyptian army was wiped out.
God guided them with a cloud by day and a pillar of fire [...]

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What’s Your Epitaph?

I’ve just started reading a book by Bob Buford, called Halftime. Here are some introductory remarks:
 
The subject of death is never a fun one, but I wanted to ask a probing question. When it’s your time, and you’ve left this life, what would you want on your tombstone? What would you select as your [...]

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Living in the Tombs

In Mark 5, we are told a story about a man living among the tombs, with an unclean spirit (Mark 5:2). He was a danger to himself and others, no one could bind him (Mark 5:3). No one was able to subdue him or bring him under control (Mark 5:4). He was day and night [...]

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Top Reasons for Staying Together

I recently read about a professional counselor writing the top 20 reasons he hears on why couples stay together in their marriages:
 

My spouse and I are best friends.

We enjoy our time together.

I like my spouse as a person.

Marriage is a lifelong commitment.

My spouse is interested in me as a person.

Marriage is sacred.

We have common dreams [...]

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Help Your Kids Pick Good Friends

I was reading the Lifeway magazine “Living with Teenagers” (Feb 2009) and it’s full of great information this month. One article on finding friends I find exceptionally noteworthy today:
 
Your teenager may have a couple hundred friends on his Facebook page, but how does s/he find real friends? How can parents help?
 

Reflect on your own friends [...]

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Communication Skills for Men

Ok, I’m definitely no expert but I have done research and have a desire to help men (including myself) to become the best husbands they can be. This post is about learning to communicate, because without good communication, our wives will feel isolated and misunderstood.
 
There is a problem when men use “guy-to-guy” communication on [...]

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Harmony in Your Marriage

Take a look at 2 Timothy 2:24. Basically we are refrain from quarreling, and be kind to people. Sometimes it’s hard to do that! But in reality, who said the Christian life was easy? What about living this out in your marriage?
 
Quarreling in a marriage can become a problem; I’m not just talking about disagreements. [...]

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Communicating With Your Children

I recently read a story about Ken…
 

“Ken squandered many opportunities to connect deeply with his sons, to communicate things that would have made their lives better. But he is thankful for those times when they did connect more than superficially—the breakfasts before school, the weekend “guy trips,” the bedtime conver­sations and prayers. The love and [...]

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The Ties That Bind

The Christian life is all about relationships. Think about the people you have in your life (right now and in the past) and what they mean to you.
 
REMEMBER YOUTH RETREATS?
If you’ve ever been to youth summer camp, you probably know the drill. Everybody packs into a dimly lit room, where there’s a candle (or maybe a ball [...]

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Freedom of Choice for Teens

I recently read about Tim Stafford’s advice to hurting parents, regarding a son’s irresponsibility toward himself and his behavior. He mentions “Three Rules of Life” that I find very positive: 

Rule 1 – You live and die by your own choices.

Rule 2 – You can choose smart or you can choose stupid.

Rule 3 – [...]

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